Have you ever felt like you don't quite know who you are anymore? Or perhaps the people around you say that you have changed so much that they don't recognise you anymore? If this is the case... then you're most likely changing or going through a change! Let me shed a little bit of light/hope.
It doesn't have to be a bad thing. Life is about learning. It's a journey we go through and we will develop different view points, ideas, habits as we go along the way. Have you ever heard the saying that change is the only constant in life? Well if you haven't, now you have! If you have changed / are changing ... then embrace it... it's going to happen some time or other!
Of course, when I say embrace the changes, I am talking about positive changes. Any change that doesn't mentally, physically and emotionally make you worse is a good change (in my opinion).
Change is hard to deal with at times. Everybody loves familiarity! Here is the thing, if it's happening then it's going to happen. If you fight it, then it will only make things harder. There have been days when I have been chilling with friends and I feel differently towards them. I feel like we are drifting apart or that they are not part of my future journey. I don't immediately cut them off... not at all, but I don't fight the drifting. I don't try to hold on to people that walk away or drift off. I take it down to change and embrace it!
Take a deep breath, buckle your seatbelt and embrace the ride. Life is to be enjoyed and you must try to find enjoyment in every moment. There is no point in stressing over something that you can not control, so go with it (remember as long as it is not harmful to you in anyway).
View change as a good thing! We change our clothes, underwear, toothbrushes hair styles (some of us) etc. – these are all positive changes! Make the change that you are going through, a positive one too and embrace it!
Just saying =)